Thursday, September 30, 2010

CHECKS!

     I think every Bride to be loves Checks.. I feel so accomplished when there is something else I can cross of the list.  Let's See...


  • Venue - Check
  • Dress - Check
  • Photographer - Check
  • Boxes for Favors  - Check
  • Cake - Almost Check (We know the Vendor, We just need to meet with her)

     Did I put a check next to the photographer?? YES! She came back into town, emailed me and still had 09.10.11 available.  I was so excited.  We met her a couple days later and put down the deposit! This is after on my last blog entry I decided I wanted to go with her, but my mom wanted my dad to pick out photographers he liked so he could feel more involved. lol. And who does he pick? The one we met with and wanted! Ha. I could of used that information in July when we met with her.. So, it was just a matter of her getting back into town and us putting a deposit down. : ) . I am beyond happy that we have her as our photographer.  The pictures are going to be great.  We don't do our engagement pictures until March.  So, I have to get to work and lose a few more pounds!! I don't have that many pounds to go till my goal weight.. We did choose an engagement location. Which is... The Zoo! Haha.  People might think thats weird I suppose, but who cares.. It really is us.  We went to the Zoo on our 5 year anniversary and the Dallas World Aquarium on our 6 year anniversary.  We both love animals and nature and our relationship is very playful, so what better place to take them? I am in love with the idea.  Our photographer will do wonders there.
     I think the Venue was the easiest check.  I had researched it a while ago, but thought that the price range was out of my budget.  Fortunately, my parents are making my wedding dreams come true.  I am so grateful to them for everything that they are doing/have done for me.  Plus, my moms excitement and me being the only daughter helps out too! haha.  The venue is gorgeous.  200 people isn't what I would call intimate, but the little chapel gives me just that feeling.  The tall open windows everywhere and the trees all around us is perfect.  With our love for the outdoors and nature it really couldn't be more perfect.  
     Ahh, the Dress.  All I wanted to do was go into the bridal shop and try on a dress I saw online.  I wasn't really looking to buy a dress considering that it was wayyy early in the planning stage.  I was really happy that everyone that I wanted to be there was there.  I went dress shopping before and I think there was too many people there.  Too many opinions to put into consideration.  So, secretly this time I just wanted it to be just the mom's and I also invited my cousin.  So, here I go into the bridal shop and they don't have the dress that I want.  Of course! But everything happens for a reason. So, I just tried on a dress that we pulled. My cousin thinks she pulled it, but I have no clue.  So, I am taking her word for it.    I slipped it on and went out.  I don't even remember much.  I don't remember if everyone else liked it or what they thought of it.  All I remember is that every dress I tried on after that wasn't the dress I loved.  It was just matter of fact. That was it, it was the dress.  I didn't have any doubts.  I had fell in love with a couple of other dresses before, which I think threw my mom off because I fell in love again.  I don't think she knew if it was for sure this time, because I had said I think this could be it a couple times before... and I definitely saw where she was coming from.  This was different.  On those other dresses I felt that I could do with out something. It wasn't perfect, but I thought I could make it work.  With this one, there was not a thing I would change about it.  I love the shape, the beading, the train and the elegance.  It's perfect.  So, Check! I had the dress! 
     So, next I have to figure out what to put in those favor boxes and how to design my cake! I am looking forward to many more checks to come. Can't wait.  Less than a year and counting. : ) .

Monday, September 13, 2010

Helllooooo...

     I think I am the worst blogger known to mankind!! It has been almost a month since my last post! I thought it was going to be easier to keep up with being that I am always online! Well.. its is officially less than a year till my wedding!! I can't believe it.  I feel like I want to have a nervous breakdown already. haha. Ok. maybe that is exaggerating a bit, but it is daunting to think of all the work we have ahead of us..
     This month my goal is to nail down a photographer.  When looking for a photographer, I look for pictures that I would call "Epic."  When you look at them you don't just see a photograph, but a piece of art.  Something you would see in a magazine or could make a huge print and have it hanging up like you bought it.. haha. Mr. Bloom and I love art.  We are both creative and have an eye for gorgeous art.  So, why shouldn't we be able to be art? Right?  I have gone through website after website of photographers. Mom, FMIL and I have been to two bridal extravaganzas.. The second time we were looking for mainly photographers.. There is so much information and we were overwhelmed.  So, I am sure that you are with me on the fact that I would like to make a decision and just get it out of the way.  I fell in love with a photographer a co-worker recommended to me.  After contacting them, I did not hear from her for WEEKS! Can you believe that? That is the last thing I need to be worrying about... An MIA photographer.  As much as I loved her work I had to let that dream go.  So, there I went going through flyer after flyer of photographers.. Nothing quite had the "epic-ness" that I was looking for.  That picture that made me say, "Wow."  Then, I got on the trusty knot.com.  Local vendors, my favorite section.  lol. I just scanned through all of their page photos.  And I had a photographer jump out on me.  I saw the "epic-ness" that I was looking for.  The gorgeous photojournalistic look.  The veil flowing in the air.  The composition of it all.  I knew that is what I wanted.  So, of course I emailed her and got a reply a few minutes later.. Is this how it is supposed to work? Does it not take weeks to send an e-mail?? Ha. She had meeting times available and we emailed back in forth multiple times and my date was available..   So, we set up a meeting.  My Dad, Mom, Mr. Bloom and I went to go meet with her and her husband.  (Hope it wasn't too intimidating) We loved their personality, their work and their professionalism.  My dad was the only one who had one issue... "I don't like the fact they met us at a Starbucks," he said. Haha.  What an oldie. ; ) .  I tried to explain that people do that these days.  Starbucks is a meeting place and I told him to get used to it.  Just like when he told me flip flops were the downfall of America.  Lol. Anyways, Dad (the budget enforcer as you will remember) thought that maybe it was a little pricey.  This frustrated me because it was definitely at the low end of our budget.  I had done all my research, and this was by far, for everything we wanted, the cheapest price.. So, we didn't commit to anything at the meeting.  Getting dad to agree really wouldn't be that big of an issue, but I of course procrastinated.  I finally get online to tell the photographer that I was hoping our day was still available and that we wanted to go with her.  And where is she?? In Asia!! Shooting a wedding.. until September 23 or so... I am going to go crazy with anticipation.. What if our day is booked now!!? Just pile on the stress... I personally believe that what is meant to be, will be.  So, hopefully 09.10.11 is still open... I will have my fingers crossed!!